Do You Think She's A Nasty Girl?

Women have quickly climbed up the capricious ladder of today's world of aggressiveness and voyeurism, by taking a stand in the sexuality department. They no longer lie in bed and wait for men to get off ; nowadays women have no queries about jumping on top and taking men for a ride on their love train.

Getting a little wet and nasty is no longer taboo and doesn't make women blush or cringe at the thought of doing so. Prepare yourself to learn about what sexually assertive women find intriguing. You may be in store for a surprise, so get the lotion and hang on to your bedposts...

tell her you want it.

Although some women are appalled at the notion of "dirty talk", others love it and can go so far as to get off from hearing you say that she's been a nasty little girl and may need to be thrust harder and harder for it. Leaning over whilst making love and whispering dirty nothings in her ear may be what's needed to make her reach the big-O.

Talking dirty makes some women feel as though you're paying them the ultimate compliment. Remember that sex involves all the senses and being vocal and expressive is a creative way to enhance what may already feel very good. It's not necessary to be excessively vulgar and use four-letter words -- telling her that you want to sleep with her best friend is not the way to go either.

Tell her things you'd like to do to her and be imaginative. Tell her about fantasies that involve her and ask her questions that have "yes" or "no" responses. For example, when you whisper, "Do you want me to turn you over and show you what I've been dreaming about doing all day?" in her ear, she will respond accordingly if she likes what she's hearing.

If you'd like to know whether or not your lady likes this kind of thing, bring it up subtly in a conversation one day when you're in bed watching television. Ask about her favorite words and phrases and if your tastes don't coincide, then work on a compromise, and don't be afraid to let her know what floats your boat either.

public indecency

The most clichéd fantasy of public sex is probably the one involving the full moon, the warm air and, of course, the beach. Most women imagine some romantic scenario that involves you, her, a bottle of wine, and privacy...even if it is in public. Now guys have to be careful about broaching this subject because although most women do have an element of exhibitionism in them, no woman really wants to get caught and be deemed as "easy".

The thrill involved in public sex may come from the risk of getting caught, the excitement in breaking a taboo, or both, but either way, the idea of public sex is a huge turn on for partners. Have you ever rubbed your lover's thighs under the table in a crowded, expensive restaurant? How did she react? Did she push your hand off quickly and snap at you or did she spread her legs apart so that you could slip your hand under her skirt and into her panties? Well if you're looking to bring it up, there's nothing like testing the waters to see if they're warm first, huh?

she likes to watch

It is common knowledge among the entire human race that nothing turns a man on more than visual stimulation, but do you know that women also love to be stimulated through their sense of sight? Now I'm not saying that you should turn up Prince's music and begin stripping as though you were born and bred in the Chippendales crew. Rather, why not undress for her slowly and make plenty of eye contact? You'd be surprised how hot a woman can become just watching you remove your leather belt and t-shirt.

It's also a fact that men enjoy watching women pleasure themselves with their own hands. Hearing her vocal pleasure as well as seeing her ability for self-gratification is sensually enticing. Perhaps very few women actually enjoy watching their partners pleasure themselves, but you'll never know until you try. Knowing that a man is getting himself off and thinking about us is a huge turn on. Now don't start stroking it as if you're in the midst of a marathon; be erotic about it instead.

If you'd rather not bring it up in conversation, then why not begin one of your sexual sessions with mutual masturbation? This way you can eventually move your hand from her privates to your own. If it seems as though the situation is perplexing her, take her hand and place it over yours while you slowly stroke yourself up and down. If you behave sexily and not pornographically, most women will probably be in tune to your vibes. The only way to find out is through sexual exploration.
her discovery channel
Women are discovering more and more that being clear about what they want in bed does not make them horrible people. So if women want something, they ask for it. After all, what's the point of "faking" and never getting what they really want out of sexual trysts? Most men love to hear what women want and although all women don't get excited by the same things, the key to discovering what's hot on your woman's particular list of sexual ventures is to ask her.

Some people don't realize it, but sex is as important an aspect of relationships as trust and companionship. It's hard to be with someone who doesn't enjoy making love as often as you do and although some people would consider that sex isn't reason enough to end a relationship, I strongly disagree. If you want to make love four times a week and you're lucky if your lover gives it to you once a month, then there's a major problem in the sex department.

This problem will eventually lead to other problems. One partner may go out and have an affair or may be constantly resentful toward the partner who won't "give it up". Ultimately, the relationship will begin to self-destruct because of a communication gap. Always remember to discuss these issues with your partner and before jumping into something serious, make sure that both of you share the same desires.

Until next time gentlemen, remember that the key to great sex is creativity and imagination. So dig in with heart and soul!